Jerk Off Instruction is the erotics of being led, the tug in your stomach when a voice tells you exactly how to touch yourself and you feel your whole body respond. It’s simple, direct, and deeply charged. JOI is about pace, breath, tension, and the pleasure of following. It’s the moment when guidance turns into hunger, when a soft command becomes the thing you can’t ignore.

It can be gentle or teasing or unmistakably dominant. What matters is the pull, the way a single instruction can shape your focus and build you toward something you didn’t plan to reach.

At Margin House, we treat JOI as an intimate craft, all about connection, control, and the slow burn of being told what to do. It’s not just instruction, it’s invitation, coaxing you into an arousal you happily give yourself over to.